My Sister

[Daisy]

What a worry for you Plant. Sending love and hugs. xx

[Plantaholic]

Spoke to my sister’s Dil yesterday and she said the doctors have withdrawn all of my sister’s support, they didn’t expect her to go beyond the weekend, she told her Dil she had had enough. Her son is filling in papers to make the journey home.

[Gemini]

I'm so sorry Plant. Sending love to you at this difficult time.
If this is your dear sister's time to go, I hope it is peaceful.

[WeeGranny]

Sad news Plant. Sending you love xx

[Lizzie48]

Plant, that is so sad, thinking of you.xxxxx

[Plantaholic]

I am trying not to be too sad, she has been suffering for a long time and was having a job to keep going but was too stubborn to have someone in to help her with washing and meals.

[Oma]

Plant so sad but you know she has had a long life and if she thinks it’s her time to go then it is right for her .
If she has been suffering a long time then it’s a blessing for her , not so for her family and you though , big hugs xxxx

[Nanto2girls]

Sad news Plant. Hope her passing is peaceful.

[Grauntie Mag]

Thinking of you Plant. X

[Daisy]

Plant - I do hope your nephew can get back home to see her, and perhaps she is 'waiting' for him. I'm so sad for you.It's amazing that she has kept going in her own home with no proper help.

Sending hugs, my dear. xx

[Plantaholic]

My sister has now been moved to a side room, visiting is still by appt. I am getting rather concerned by what is going to happen when the time comes. No sign of her son arriving, I was told by her Dil (who seems to be the only one I can contact) that the youngest GD has moved into my sisters bungalow from London, supposedly to keep an eye and deal with post etc, that she has informed the hospital that she is next of kin. Since she is not the eldest GD, the eldest GD is very cross with her. Also she is the one GD my sister felt was difficult to get on with. I have tried to contact the eldest GD to find out about her father coming but no luck. If my sister passes before her son gets here, what is going to happen with all the arrangements to be made, I don’t know if my sister has left her wishes regarding her funeral, I know she will have left a will. I am going to try and talk to someone at the hospital to find out if they have arranged for a priest to visit her, she converted to the catholic faith when she married. Sorry to go on about this but I feel so frustrated by all this.

[Gemini]

Plant, don't be sorry. We are your friends and you can talk to us.
It's sad enough this is happening without you having this worry and frustration.

It must be so hard for you not knowing what is going on. I hope you get to speak to someone soon. Take care xxxxx

[Nanto2girls]

Plant,you are not going on about it.
You are worried and need to get things off your chest.
Please talk here whenever you want.

[Oma]

Plant all these thoughts going around your head you need to get it off your chest, so don’t apologise, we all are here to help even if it’s just just listening .

You can’t stop the family arguing and fighting amongst themselves so don’t worry about that ,
Funerals and death brings out to worst in some people I think .

Your sister will be at peace so won’t be fretting as long as she has a peaceful passing that’s all that matters xxx

[Clover]

I’m so sorry to hear about your sister Plant. In my humble opinion a nursing home would be the best option.Sending ((Hugs))