How soon is too soon?

[Gemini]

Everyone has a right to be happy and move on, and like Daisy says, still have place in their heart and home for the one they have lost.

I think my main problem with the case I was talking about was it being in my face each day on FB, so soon after the other lady's passing. I have Unfollowed that friend, so I don't get all her posts in my feed now, and she will have no idea, so no offence caused

[Daisy]

Gem - I suppose that's one of the problems with social media. I know quite a few people who post about every aspect of their lives, almost as things are happening, and I don't think they stop and wonder how it appears to their friends. I think you've done the best thing in stepping back from seeing her posts every day.

I mut admit I scroll past a lot of FB posts - apart from anything else, it takes up a lot of time reading everything!

[WeeGranny]

The thing is, none of us are getting any younger and some people want to seize happiness when they can before it's too late. None of us know how we might feel when we lose our OH even though we say we'd never marry again now. I think it's the friends/family who perhaps feel that they shouldn't move on. We'll never forget the one we've lost, but who can say it's wrong to find happiness and companionship? Having said that, I don't think I could cope with another OH!!!