I would like you to do this for me if you can. If not I will do it myself but will have to have your password to get into as you. You can then obviously change it 
Click on your AVATAR.
Underneath that click on EDIT SETTINGS
You will see 4 headings PROFILE ACCOUNT PRIVACY NOTIFICATIONS
Click on ACCOUNT first and it should look this this.
YOUR EMAIL
Invisible Mode
Enable invisible mode Invisible mode allows you to browse the forums without appearing in the Online Users Module. DONT TOUCH THIS
Reputation Level
Enable reputation level Your current reputation level is displayed to other users whenever you post a message. If you would like to hide your reputation, disable this option.
Private Messaging
Enable Private Messaging If you do not want to send or receive private messages, uncheck the box. make sure this is ticked and the one below
Receive Private Messaging
From all members
Only from subscribers and administrators
You may limit the receipt of private messages to just administrator and your followers. Other members who attempt to send messages to you will be told that you have disabled private messaging.
Visitor Messaging
Enable Visitor Messaging The visitor messaging allows members to leave messages to one another publicly. If you do not want to receive visitor messages, uncheck the box to turn off the visitor messaging system.
Emailing
Receive Email from Administrators From time to time, the administrators and/or other members may want to send you email notifications or messages. If you do not want to receive email from certain people then you may disable the options here
Conversation Detail Options
Visible Post Elements Show Signatures
Show Avatar
Edit Post Signature
Display mode
If you are feeling brave you can also go into privacy and make sure those settings are as you would like them. Ditto notifications. Good luck.
Click on your AVATAR.
Underneath that click on EDIT SETTINGS
You will see 4 headings PROFILE ACCOUNT PRIVACY NOTIFICATIONS
Click on ACCOUNT first and it should look this this.
YOUR EMAIL
Invisible Mode
Enable invisible mode Invisible mode allows you to browse the forums without appearing in the Online Users Module. DONT TOUCH THIS
Reputation Level
Enable reputation level Your current reputation level is displayed to other users whenever you post a message. If you would like to hide your reputation, disable this option.
Private Messaging
Enable Private Messaging If you do not want to send or receive private messages, uncheck the box. make sure this is ticked and the one below
Receive Private Messaging
From all members
Only from subscribers and administrators
You may limit the receipt of private messages to just administrator and your followers. Other members who attempt to send messages to you will be told that you have disabled private messaging.
Visitor Messaging
Enable Visitor Messaging The visitor messaging allows members to leave messages to one another publicly. If you do not want to receive visitor messages, uncheck the box to turn off the visitor messaging system.
Emailing
Receive Email from Administrators From time to time, the administrators and/or other members may want to send you email notifications or messages. If you do not want to receive email from certain people then you may disable the options here
Conversation Detail Options
Visible Post Elements Show Signatures
Show Avatar
Edit Post Signature
Display mode
If you are feeling brave you can also go into privacy and make sure those settings are as you would like them. Ditto notifications. Good luck.
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