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    The library

    As today is the anniversary of the first ever free lending library, I was prompted to begin this thread.

    Libraries are very important to me.

    As a child I loved books and reading. We didn't have a lot of spare money, and books were more expensive than they are now. No pound shops or charity shops!
    My dad borrowed books for me each week and read to me at night until I was old enough to read alone.
    I often got the bus into town to the library when I was old enough,and spent a lot of time there.
    When I started at grammar school it took me a while to fit in. I had come from a very small private school, which ill equipped me for life at a bigger school (By the next year I had settled in and I had lots of school friends from them on)
    At first I was lonely though and a bit scared, and the library at lunch times was my saviour.

    Once I became a mum, once again the library was my friend. A husband who worked long hours including evenings, no internet in those days and very few TV channels. No money for books, so I was a regular at the library.

    I took my children to all the story time and activity sessions at the library in the school holidays. Free activities!
    When I moved here my GD was 16 months old. A village over 3 miles from town, I really missed being in town and all the things I could walk to with her. A few months later I found our local library. The storytime session happened to be on the day I had her, so we were regulars there for many years, and got to know everyone.
    When my mum's eyesight deteriorated so that she could no longer read for pleasure, audio books became a lifeline for her. These I reserve online and collect from the library.
    Our library had to close 2 years ago due to an unsafe building structure. Work is ongoing to move us into a new home.
    Until then we have a mobile bus which stops in 4 locations around the village over 4 days. We are lucky to have this, but it has only a small percentage of the books a full library would have and has many problems for the staff, so we look forward to the permanent one opening. Hopefully Spring next year!
    “A grandchild fills a space in your heart that you never knew was empty.” – Unknown

    #2
    I wish I had been introduced to a local library as a child, didn't even know where it was. We had very few books at home, my one book was a Rupert Annual every Christmas. Nobody ever read to me and I can't even remember a library at school. No wonder you have a gift for writing stories Gemini. My OH was an avid reader and that is when I started to read books from my Mil's bookshelf. OH used to read to the children every evening, they carried that on with their children. Good luck to getting your village library back.
    What is life if full of care we have no time to stand and stare

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      #3
      I started going to the library at a very young age. I can remember the Milly Molly Mandy books I used to love. I can vaguely remember my mum reading to me but I was a very avid reader as a young child and still am. I took bothmour children to,the library when they were little but only our son became a reader and still is. DD was never really interested, and now only reads non fiction. GS reads a lot but not GD, although they were also introduced to books at a very young age. I,think because I was an only child and was quite lonely my,books were my friends and the characters I read about became very real to me. I desperately wanted to be part of a big family, so loved to read those sort of stories.
      "Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened." - Dr Seuss

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        #4
        Oh, Gem - the memories you've stirred up.

        Like Enfys, I'm an only child and desperately wanted to be part of a family. I could read before I went to school but don't really remember any books from that age or anybody ever reading to me. When I was 6 we moved house and I had to go to a school where all the children were a lot older and didn't live close to us, so books became my playmates. I was lucky that my mother bought me lots of books - but I longed to go and explore the nearest library but she wouldn't let me in case I caught something!

        Then in the last year of primary school I made friends with a new girl and I used to go to the library with her on a Saturday. My mum never knew. I didn't have a ticket, but we'd choose her books together which I loved, and sometimes I'd read at her house.

        When I started work I joined the library and always had several books on the go. My mother didn't approve but I think she just gave up warning me of the horrors that might befall me in that germ-ridden place!

        I always took our children to the library when they were little, and they both loved being read to. Now they mostly read non-fiction, but I think it helped them in lots of ways - they both have a good vocabulary and general knowledge and DS2 has a degree in Communication Studies.

        DIL2 takes both our GDs to the library most weeks and another generation is enjoying discovering books and reading for pleasure.

        Our nearest library offers lots more than books these days, and I have a friend who always goes there to use the computer.



        "Joy is what happens to us when we allow ourselves to recognise how good things really are. "

        (Marianne Williamson)

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          #5
          I think i must have been about 10 when i joined the library.
          I loved the Heidi books. Also liked reading the twins books. There was the Eskimo twins,the Japanese Twins and loads more twin books.




          Sometimes I forget to like posts,but that doesn't mean I don't like them.

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            #6
            Nanto - I loved the Heidi books, but don't remember the twins books. I also loved the Chalet School series - there were lots of them.
            "Joy is what happens to us when we allow ourselves to recognise how good things really are. "

            (Marianne Williamson)

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              #7
              Enfys, I felt the same as you. I wasn't an only child, but with a profoundly handicapped younger sister I was in every real sense. I too always longed to be part of a large family. Books made life much better.
              “A grandchild fills a space in your heart that you never knew was empty.” – Unknown

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                #8
                Gem - I agree, books made life better. I can still get totally immersed in a book and don't even hear people talking to me!

                "Joy is what happens to us when we allow ourselves to recognise how good things really are. "

                (Marianne Williamson)

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                  #9
                  As a child I loved going to the library....the smell, being in a forest of books, the muffled sounds & so many books just waiting to be read. No mum breathing down my neck & getting away from chores. Enid Blyton was my best friend & she took me with her on so many adventures. Noddy I loved. ....no PC in those days. (Only Police Constables). I loved Heidi too. Also Secret Garden & the Water babies.

                  On top of all this there was the dream job of taking out the card & stamping with that 'cutcha' noise the stamp made. Finding the place for the card to go into the correct tiny drawer .....ooo I so much wanted her job. Memories.💓

                  "Good friends help you to find important things when you have lost them....your smile, your hope, and your courage."

                  (Doe Zantamata.)

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                    #10
                    Oh yes, looking through those card files Nana!
                    “A grandchild fills a space in your heart that you never knew was empty.” – Unknown

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