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    My ibs story

    As I do talk about my ibs fairly often (not too much I hope!) I thought I would say a bit more about it here.
    A lot of people have ibs, and it is more common in women than men.
    It can be severe , it can be mild, it can go away for a long time. Most people have 'flare ups' from time to time, then spells with few or no symptoms in between.
    It is not life threatening, it doesn't rule your life, but it is no fun.

    I was diagnosed with it at age 21. There is no test for ibs , they just note the symptoms and rule out other causes. As the name irritable bowel syndrome suggest the bowel is hyper sensitive. Things which have no effect on others send irritable bowels into spasm.

    My first baby was 10 weeks old and we lived in a caravan, far from family and friends. I was in total agony and didn't know why. I feared it was some post natal complication.
    The GP came out, ibs was diagnosed, meds given and more fibre recommended (opinion has changed on that now, over 40 years later as too much fibre can make matters worse)

    It settled and I had no more episodes until just over a year later. We had moved to York and were living with my parents until the house purchase went through. GP called out again. We thought it may be ibs but the pain we so intense I wasn't sure. It was, more meds calmed it down.
    Stress doesn't help ibs and living with my parents was very stressful.

    For many years after that, I had few if any symptoms. As I grew older beef became a trigger for attacks. I could eat beef, but if I had it for 2 or more consecutive days I suffered, then eventually any amount of beef affected me. . Now I don't eat beef at all as it's not worth it for me.
    I could eat and enjoyed Indian food, mild to medium, into my 50's. Then it started to trigger my ibs, so I rarely have it and if so I ask for a no chili dish. A couple of years ago I realised that a tiny amount of chili causes me a lot pain. So, for me more triggers as the years have passed.

    Any food which can can cause gas in the gut is awful for ibs sufferers. Baked beans, cabbage, broccoli etc. Where it may cause no problem for the average person, or perhaps a little embarrassing wind, for us it is very very painful. The gut overreacts and the pain and gut rumbling and churning goes on for hours. I am frequently awake at night for this reason.
    Pain along the whole of the colon area, worse on the lower left side are my symptoms, plus going to the loo often, and occasionally constipation. Some people have more constipation, it varies from person to person. If I eat a large meal late evening, which is rare, my body can react with really bad diarrhoea. A high fat meal can have a bad effect too.
    The ibs pain, caused by cramps in the gut, is very bad and painkillers make little or no difference. Antispasmodics can help, as can peppermint tea and any heat to the tummy, as in hot water bottles or what bags for the microwave.
    Most of us manage our symptoms by trying to avoid our trigger foods, drinking plenty of water and avoiding stress (I'm not so good at that one!)
    I have antispasmodics on me at all times, in case something I eat away from home contains beef or chill that I am unaware of.

    The attack I had over the last couple of days was so severe and at one point yesterday I wondered if something was wrong and I should go to the ER. Then I told myself it was like the severe attacks I had years ago.

    Thankfully it is so much better today , and hopefully it will all calm down within the next day or so.
    My DD1 unfortunately is a sufferer too.
    “A grandchild fills a space in your heart that you never knew was empty.” – Unknown

    #2
    Poor you Gem, I know a few, women, with the same problem. I do hope you are feeling better now.

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      #3
      Horrible isn't it , Its just not worth eating these foods , I have the same trouble eating Bananas , Cucumber skin ( ok with the peeled cucumber ) also not good with spring onions unless they are flash fried in a wok , and lately I have had very bad side effects with peaches , the pain is horrible .
      Its strange the problems some foods can cause and although you fancy them its no hardship to avoid them most of the time
      I love to sniff Bananas but wouldn't dare eat even a tiny bit .

      You must feel really rough even when the pain subsides Gem xxxx
      Im not fat just 6ft too small

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        #4
        Gem, pleased to hear the latest attack is calming down.
        It's good that you know what the trigger foods are.
        Hope it's a long long time before you have another attack.
        Sometimes I forget to like posts,but that doesn't mean I don't like them.

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          #5
          Not very pleasant by the sound of it Gemini and Oma
          What is life if full of care we have no time to stand and stare

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            #6
            Gem and Oma - it sounds really horrible, and even though you try to avoid trigger foods sometimes you don't realise what is in a particular dish. Gem, it also sounds as though new triggers develop over time.

            I'm so glad you're nearly over the last flare up. I'm sure stress is a difficult trigger to avoid, but do relaxation techniques like Yoga or breathing exercises help at all?

            "Joy is what happens to us when we allow ourselves to recognise how good things really are. "

            (Marianne Williamson)

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              #7
              Relaxation does help yes Daisy. That is actually why I began having reflexology treatments all those years ago, then decided to train to do that for others.
              I do some hand reflexology on myself when I am suffering, and that reflex area on my hand is so painful at those times.
              “A grandchild fills a space in your heart that you never knew was empty.” – Unknown

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                #8
                Very pleased your ibs attack is clearing up Gemini.
                What is life if full of care we have no time to stand and stare

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                  #9
                  Gem - it fascinates me how reflexology on your feet can signal problems in other areas of the body. A remember a friend volunteering to be treated at a reflexology demonstration some years ago and never thought to mention she'd had a hysterectomy about 7 weeks previously.
                  "Joy is what happens to us when we allow ourselves to recognise how good things really are. "

                  (Marianne Williamson)

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                    #10
                    I can get away without a flare up for years at a time then boom, just out of the blue it raises it's ugly head. The last I had was on my last holiday in the Lakes. As I said on the Chat site Gem IBS is underrated. Sorry to hear you had a bad few days of it. Oma, I didn't know you are a sufferer too. Bloomin nuisance.
                    "Good friends help you to find important things when you have lost them....your smile, your hope, and your courage."

                    (Doe Zantamata.)

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                      #11
                      Nana I don't get IBS as such , but certain foods cause me severe pain and sickness that lasts for hours , to the point im rolling the bed with it , so not worth eating those foods ,

                      Not like my Shell fish allergy that could kill me but in a way worse as I can eat something for years then out of the blue im intolerant , crazy isn't it
                      Im not fat just 6ft too small

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                        #12
                        This flare up, which was very bad, came after at least 2 weeks of daily pain, culminating in the intense pain on the Thursday night and Friday. I was beginning to forget what life without stomach pain was like! Very glad to be through it.
                        “A grandchild fills a space in your heart that you never knew was empty.” – Unknown

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                          #13
                          Gem you must feel so sore still , how you manage to carry on when your like that is amazing ,
                          I do hope this is the last for a while for you im sure it's exhausting you cant get much sleep when your in so much pain , Do you have meds for your flare ups ?
                          xxxx
                          Im not fat just 6ft too small

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                            #14
                            It's much better now Oma, thanks.
                            I take Mebeverine, which you can get on prescription or from Boots at the pharmacy without one.
                            Normally I just take a couple of the over the counter Buscopan if I need them, but for a flare up like than one I just had Mebeverine seem to work best. They are the ones prescribed to me years ago as Colofac.
                            “A grandchild fills a space in your heart that you never knew was empty.” – Unknown

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                              #15
                              Gem - do products like Keffir help to keep flare ups at bay if you take them regularly?

                              "Joy is what happens to us when we allow ourselves to recognise how good things really are. "

                              (Marianne Williamson)

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