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    Going home from hospital too soon.

    I don't know about other parts of the country but certainly around here patients seem to be discharged from hospital quickly. In many ways this is good. We all prefer to be in our own homes,you recover better are more comfortable and avoid picking up those hospital bugs!

    I know of three cases in last few weeks who were discharged too soon.
    My friend's mum, aged 86 had a mastectomy. I could scarcely believe it when I heard it was as a day patient. I was a day patient for my lumpectomy, and was glad I was. I would not have wanted a night in hospital My surgery was not as extreme, and I was in my early 60's not mid 80's.
    To make matters worse, when my friend's sister went to collect her mum she had been slightly sick after food, so they wanted to keep an eye on her. By the time it was decided that she was fine to go home, there were no doctors to sign. She had to stay in overnight. On the chair on which she had been sitting since coming back from recovery, no bed available. Her DD went ballistic, threatened to take her mother home if she was expected to spend the night on a chair, and eventually a bed was found. She went home the next day with drains and tubes still attached.

    My SIL's dad (75) had surgery for prostate cancer and despite being told he would be in for 3 or 4 days, he was discharged the following day. With catheter in place , extra bags, and no real instructions on how to look after this. He and his wife were in tears that first night.

    My OH's golfing friend (72) had varicose vein surgery last week. Despite being kept waiting 8 hours before her op, so last on the list, and still bleeding, she was sent home that night. They were told to remove the bandages 3 day later in the bath. They have no bath.

    It just seems as if a lot of the after care which nurses or HCA's would do in hospital is now being left for patients and their families to do.
    Two of those cases were York and one was Hull.

    When I had my first baby I stayed in hospital for 9 days, although we were encouraged to get up after 6 hours, which previous generations were not. It was far too long and at 21 I felt as though I had been sent to prison! The 48 hour stays after babies 2 and 3 seemed perfect to me.
    Now it is exceptional to stay in hospital much longer than 6 hours after the birth, unless there are problems with mother or baby. This means new mums get far less rest, in my opinion.
    “A grandchild fills a space in your heart that you never knew was empty.” – Unknown

    #2
    I so agree Gem , I worry about Mums being sent home after just a few hours , we all know how things can develop later like excessive bleeding fevers etc
    . A lot of surgery patients are sent home almost immediately as you say with little or no information or after care

    My sister was horrified when B was sent home after his transplant when I told her no district nurse or Dr would be coming out , she still thought that's what happened ,
    She worried every day for us in case he took ill and no nurse was at hand to call ,
    But that's normal now , the younger generation think its odd we had nurses coming out daily when we had our children or District nurses coming out to change dressings
    They cant understand how we stayed in Hospital so long after a birth ,
    I do think its gone from one extreme to the other but now there is more likelihood of contracting germs in a Hospital than in your own home isn't there .
    Im not fat just 6ft too small

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      #3
      We had a different story after DH had his bowel cancer op. We were told he could be home at about 7 days afterwards but in fact it was almost 3 weeks as he had problems with BP and the different medications. I certainly didn’t want him home before he was ready. Also, after his procedure to zap the lung/ liver tumour, for the life of me I can’t remember what it’s called, which was done in day surgery he was kept in for the next day too as they wanted to keep an eye on him. I really think it depends on the health authority and we have been happy with the way DH was dealt with. But there are probably people who have had different treatment in our area, who knows.

      But terrible for someone to be discharged so soon after such a major op as a mastectomy, poor lady.
      "Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened." - Dr Seuss

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        #4
        I'm glad it is a better situation for you and your OH Enfys, as it should be.
        “A grandchild fills a space in your heart that you never knew was empty.” – Unknown

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          #5
          Enfys - ablation??? (not sure!) It's good to know P was so well cared for.

          It seems there's no happy medium. It's incredible that they would either discharge a lady in her 80s so quickly after a major operation, or would even contemplate leaving her in a chair overnight.

          When my DS2 had a hernia op about 3/4 years ago he was the last on the list, and slow to come round from the anaesthetic. He was given a cup of tea and a sandwich - left on the table at the end of the bed which he couldn't reach. Then they started to shut the ward down for the end of day, took his snack away, turned off all the lights and only after DIL protested did they get a wheelchair so she could wheel him out. They had to wander round in darkness trying to find an unlocked door. In other circumstances it would have been funny, trying to break out of a hospital!



          "Joy is what happens to us when we allow ourselves to recognise how good things really are. "

          (Marianne Williamson)

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            #6
            Daisy when I had my last hernia op' almost as soon as I woke I was given a cup of coffee & biscuit. I was asked to dress then my OH supported me to the car. Of course I felt fine as I was heavily medicated.

            I agree Gem. They do send patients out too quickly now.
            "Good friends help you to find important things when you have lost them....your smile, your hope, and your courage."

            (Doe Zantamata.)

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              #7
              Nana - it was probably a good job you were still 'under the influence' because I don't suppose the car journey was much fun.

              "Joy is what happens to us when we allow ourselves to recognise how good things really are. "

              (Marianne Williamson)

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                #8
                I didn't feel a thing Daisy.😉🤣
                "Good friends help you to find important things when you have lost them....your smile, your hope, and your courage."

                (Doe Zantamata.)

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                  #9
                  Originally posted by Nana View Post
                  I didn't feel a thing Daisy.😉🤣
                  That's a good thing. My DS2 had 'come round' enough to feel every bump in the road, plus rush hour traffic, in the dark and pouring rain his poor OH not knowing the road very well and not used to city driving.

                  "Joy is what happens to us when we allow ourselves to recognise how good things really are. "

                  (Marianne Williamson)

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                    #10
                    Daisy ...poor fella. I bet your DIL felt frustrated by the journey too.
                    "Good friends help you to find important things when you have lost them....your smile, your hope, and your courage."

                    (Doe Zantamata.)

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                      #11
                      Nana - you're right. I think it was as bad for DIL as DS!
                      "Joy is what happens to us when we allow ourselves to recognise how good things really are. "

                      (Marianne Williamson)

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                        #12
                        After my DD had her operation 24th January for the cysts she had they sent her home the same day,although we managed her treatment and aftercare between her house and mine we have just spent this past week dealing with an infected hematoma (large blood clot) it had collected under the site where they had placed the instrument to do the op in the first place it burst through the skin and frightened the life out of her when she noticed the blood and mucus seeping through her clothes whilst she was at work,when I telephoned the hospital to tell them what had happened they advised to take her to our GP who would give her antibotics to clear the infection and told me it was normal for this to happen ??
                        Keep Calm,You're Fabulous

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                          #13
                          Your poor DD Glamma
                          “A grandchild fills a space in your heart that you never knew was empty.” – Unknown

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                            #14
                            That’s awful Glam. How horrible for your poor DD.Hope she’s recovering now.

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                              #15
                              Glamm - your poor DD must have been really shocked when that happened. Surely if it was normal for that to happen, they should have warned her, poor girl. I hope she's ok now.
                              "Joy is what happens to us when we allow ourselves to recognise how good things really are. "

                              (Marianne Williamson)

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