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    OH's broken wrist

    Last night my OH went out to take the wheelie bin out ready for this morning as they come early. We keep it in the back garden so we need to move it then push it through the garden gate and to the front of the property. As she manoeuvred the bin she fell over a concrete cat we have in the garden. Now we have both tripped over it more than once and only last week I decided to move it to a safer place. I wish I had!!
    OH came in and told me what had happened and said she thought she had broken her wrist. I examined it and she could move everything but we did both think it looked not quite right. I said we needed to get it checked at the ED.
    Off we went. I have a big fear of driving in multi story car parks,and have never done so. There is no other parking at our hospital aside from Disabled or Staff.
    On the odd occasion I have been on my own I park at a car park a couple of minutes walk away. I didn't want OH to have to walk any further than necessary. Neither did I want to drop her off at the entrance and leave her to fend for herself while I parked and walked back. We decided that it shouldn't be that crowded at that time so I may be lucky and find a spot on the ground level, which never happens normally.
    I decided this was the time to be brave. Plenty of ground level spaces, all good!
    It was busy in the ED. Lots of babies and children
    We arrived around 9.15 we think and left 3 hours later. Could be worse I suppose!
    After examination and X ray it was declared broken, just one bone. It had kind of bent up on itself when she fell and it need straightening. Either manually or with an operation. Luckily with gas and air, a local anaesthetic and 3 staff they managed to pull and pull until it clicked. Then they plastered it, then back to X ray to check it was set correctly. It was, so no op needed, Phew!
    She will go to the fracture clinic on Wednesday. They offered Tuesday but Sod's Law it's the one day I have all 3 GC all day, and we didn't know who else to ask to drive her. Only an extra day to wait anyway. They said as it was in such good position they may not want to take this cast off on Wednesday, but may wait a bit. It will come off at some point though to be replaced by the one which will stay for a few weeks.

    She was very brave and never in much pain. She liked the gas and Air! She is totally gutted about the the golf competitions she will have be back out of however.

    These things happen so suddenly don't they?
    The Dr just kept saying be glad it's not your hip, it could be much worse, in response to her golf disappointments! We know he is right it could be worse.
    “A grandchild fills a space in your heart that you never knew was empty.” – Unknown

    #2
    Blimey Gem, what a night.
    Doctor was right,it could have been a lot worse.
    Please give my best to S.
    Sometimes I forget to like posts,but that doesn't mean I don't like them.

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      #3
      Oh goodness Gem.Poor S. These things happen so quickly. I remember when they had to reposition my broken ankle-not a pleasant experience. I’m glad the fracture seems in a good position and hopefully won’t need adjustment.How frustrating for a keen golfer but as the doctor said it could have been worse. Well done you for being willing to face your dread of the multi-storey,even though you were lucky to get an easy space.
      Please give my best wishes to S.

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        #4
        I am sorry to read this what a night for you both , and cancelling your night away , hope all will be ok on Wednesday GOLF must wait I’m afraid 😦 sending get well wishes to S

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          #5
          Thanks everyone.
          The night away was not to be, we had already cancelled it over the cat, or we would have over this.
          The owners kindly refunded our money. We will book again when everything calms down around here.
          “A grandchild fills a space in your heart that you never knew was empty.” – Unknown

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            #6
            Goodness Gem, her poor wrist it must have been really painful. Send her my best wishes
            Bring me sunshine in your smile.

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              #7
              Well that is one cat that will be moved now I bet.
              This week has been awful for you both xxxxx
              Im not fat just 6ft too small

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                #8
                Poor OH, just as the weather is improving and golf must be getting more enjoyable than it was in the winter. You don't have to be a golfer to feel for her.

                Thank goodness is wasn't multiple bones needing surgery. I was remembering Clover's broken ankle and how she had to wait for what seemed a long time to have it reset. So, hopefully, S will break all records for fast healing. I'm sure you feel cross with yourself for not moving that concrete cat when you thought about it, but that's what happens in life and thankfully it wasn't more serious. I'm sure S had thought about moving it too!

                A really big 'well done' on driving into the multi-story at the hospital. It doesn't matter that it was easy to find spaces - the main thing is you did it. Give yourself a pat on the back! I'm generally happy driving in most situations provided I know where I'm going, but even so, I was a bit anxious the first time I had to negotiate very complex road works driving OH back from the hospital some months ago. It took two or three visits before I felt really confident! So I hope you'll try another multi-story car park just for practice and the experience - it makes it so much easier to park in town centres where there are limited alternatives. So out of a horrible day you might have gained a new driving skill. xxx
                "Joy is what happens to us when we allow ourselves to recognise how good things really are. "

                (Marianne Williamson)

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                  #9
                  Oh just wanted to add my best wishes for a good mend and speedy recovery to S.
                  And well done you on your parking, some of those ramps and barriers can seen tricky.

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                    #10
                    Poor S. Thank goodness it was a stone cat ornament & not the real thing! Poor thing having to miss golf too, just as the weather is improving . Sending get well wishes.
                    "Good friends help you to find important things when you have lost them....your smile, your hope, and your courage."

                    (Doe Zantamata.)

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                      #11
                      It so easy for these things to happen, but glad it was no worse. Hope she makes a speedy recovery and is soon back on the golf course.
                      "Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened." - Dr Seuss

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                        #12
                        Thanks everyone.
                        Oma, the stone cat was consigned to the back of the flower bed as soon as we got back at 12.30 am, when I finished the bin putting out!
                        As I said on Chat, she is managing to sleep well, which is great. The fact that is her left wrist is making it easier for her to do things single handedly than when she had the other one in plaster after the op a few years ago.

                        Daisy, the young woman who was doing my reflexology at the time I passed my test told me her dad went with her to a multi story car park as soon as she passed her test so she could master it! I thought it was a wise suggestion and one I should have taken up. As you say, I should try again, at a quiet time to actually master the ramps when it's not too busy.
                        “A grandchild fills a space in your heart that you never knew was empty.” – Unknown

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                          #13
                          Gem - I'm glad S is sleeping ok, and as you say, it's easier to do things one handed with your dominant hand.

                          I think the young woman was right to get her dad to help her cope with a multi story car park straight away. When my DS1 passed his test we said we'd pay for a motorway lesson for him, but before he could have the lesson my mum, who lived in Surrey at the time, collapsed and was rushed to hospital, and DS ended up having to drive up to Guilford on the motorway - it was about 3 days after he'd passed. He was fine about it but we made sure DS2 got his motorway lesson very quickly after his test. I think the thing with the ramps is they look so steep and you wonder if your car's going to get damaged, but provided you take it slowly it will be ok. Do have another go - you've already proved you can do it!


                          "Joy is what happens to us when we allow ourselves to recognise how good things really are. "

                          (Marianne Williamson)

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                            #14
                            Daisy, it was her Dads idea, or she would probably have avoided it!
                            “A grandchild fills a space in your heart that you never knew was empty.” – Unknown

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                              #15
                              Good old Dad.

                              "Joy is what happens to us when we allow ourselves to recognise how good things really are. "

                              (Marianne Williamson)

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