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    Grrrrr!!

    I have power of attorney for my mum, and do her banking for her. This entails going into the bank every few weeks, at her request to draw cash from her savings account, which I take to her, and transfer some to her current, to keep it afloat. A while ago when I was doing this, the assistant suggested I had my own card for the current account, rather than using mums. This was duly sent, followed by pin number.

    Yesterday morning I did the usual banking for mum, then after lunch took her to buy a new washing machine. To her embarrassment her card didnt work. It was the right card, correct pin, the card was in date, and she knew she had sufficient funds. Mum found it quite worrying. I tried my card to her account, which worked, so we paid for the washing machine and left. The salesman surmised that for some reason mums card was cancelled when mine was issued. This certainly shouldn't have been the case, as mine was just a second card. However I felt he must be right. I told mum not to worry, it wouldn't effect direct debits, and that I would go back to the bank next week and sort the matter out. Mum mostly deals in cash, she she wouldn't be needing to use her card within the the next few days.

    However, this morning I had mum on the phone in a panic. She had a letter from Direct Line saying her payment for house insurance had been declined, and she must make alternative payment within 7 days ( but not to send cash, a cheque or postal order!)
    I had to change my plans for this morning and go into the bank, which is The Halifax, and nowhere near where I live. The man there was very helpful. It seems that whoever set up my card, didn't alter mums account to allow a 2nd card! Therefore when my card was issued, mums was invalid. We had no idea.
    A new card and pin number are being sent to mum, and her account has now been changed to allow 2 cards.

    The Direct Line payment was an annual payment from mums card, which is why it was refused. I then had to go to mums, explain to her, reassure her, and get the insurance policy number from her so I can now put it on my card for mums account. A lot of faffing around and inconvenience for me, a lot of needless worry for an elderly lady.
    I know we all make mistakes, but I really think this is not good enough.
    “A grandchild fills a space in your heart that you never knew was empty.” – Unknown

    #2
    What a performance Gem, all caused by an admin error. The bank should surely have a set of instructions for staff to do this sort of thing (or a computer program!) that asks the question 'is this an additional card on this account'. Thank goodness you got it sorted out, but your poor mum must have been worried.
    "Joy is what happens to us when we allow ourselves to recognise how good things really are. "

    (Marianne Williamson)

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      #3
      Oh dear something that should be so simple going so wrong. I bet you wished you hadn't bothered about the new card in the first place. Thank goodness it's all been sorted out now but such an inconvenience for you and a worry for your Mum.

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        #4
        Pure madness isn't it someone obviously didn't know what they were doing when you set the second card up , At least it's sorted
        Im not fat just 6ft too small

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          #5
          Too right to be cross Gem. Such a simple thing for the Bank to do but they don't realise that their mistake has a domino effect. It does cause the elderly to worry. I've often said to OH that I dread to think what happens to those who don't have a supportive family.
          "Good friends help you to find important things when you have lost them....your smile, your hope, and your courage."

          (Doe Zantamata.)

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            #6
            We expect them to get things right first time don't we. At least it's all sorted now Gem.
            Sometimes I forget to like posts,but that doesn't mean I don't like them.

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              #7
              And so it continues!
              They won't allow me to pay over the phone, as I am not my mother, and even though I have power of attorney they have no letter saying so.
              I only want to pay for goodness sake!
              The funny thing is it was me who set up the account with Direct Line, not mum, but now I can't pay, even though I paid in the first place!!
              So, we have 2 options. OH finds time to go over to mums tomorrow and phone from there so she can speak to them (I have GS1 all day, so can't do it) Or OH phones and pretends to be Mum! They deserve to be lied to, so I think we may do that.

              Thanks for your understanding comments everyone.
              Clover, I do indeed wish I hadn't bothered with the card!
              Nana, that is what mum said, what is it like for those with no supportive family? At 88 you can do without needless stress! (and at 61 )
              “A grandchild fills a space in your heart that you never knew was empty.” – Unknown

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                #8
                OH used to have difficulties when dealing with his mum's affairs. He gave up going to one Barclays branch because they seemed to delight in putting obstacles in the way. Ironically often to do with paying dividends in to her account. Could perhaps understand caution over withdrawals yet the home supervisor managed to swindle thousands out of mil's account.

                Crazy how one staff member not clicking on the right key can cause so much disruption in your life.
                xx

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                  #9
                  This morning OH impersonated mum on the phone (don't tell anyone) Job done!
                  “A grandchild fills a space in your heart that you never knew was empty.” – Unknown

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                    #10
                    Just seen this nightmare Gem I had a card for my dad as power of attorney at Halifax, purely my own fault but I had a card for my own account and by mistake I paid the funeral chap with my own card by mistake as they were the same colour I had just lost my dad and wasn't thinking straight, of course there wasn't enough money in my account and so was overdrawn with massive charges. I went in to sort it out I got some of the charges back as I explained why would I use my account with just a few quid when my dad had a few thousand in and we all know the cost of a funeral but there was little sympathy and I had been with the Halifax most of my life no longer there , hope it's sorted now Gem

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                      #11
                      Very worrying for the elderly Gemini
                      What is life if full of care we have no time to stand and stare

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