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    Unbelievable!

    Oh let me vent!

    We arrived at my mum's house this morning to find that things had been done to the front garden. Three small fir trees had the tops lopped off (not trimmed to a point as we do) Also a small tree was cut down and worse of all the beautiful fuchsia bush was cut right down from several feet to a few inches from the ground. Losing all privacy to the front bedroom window.

    I messaged the next door neighbour, whose OH cuts mum's side of the adjoining hedge, to ask if they had seen anything going on.
    Amazingly the husband had done this! He was cutting mum's hedge last week when the man who is buying the house asked him to do these other jobs.
    To say I am incandescent with rage would not be an overstatement.
    I don't want to fall out with the neighbours, and I have said I don't blame them but pointed out that this is still my mums property and in effect trespass for anyone to go into the garden and do anything not authorised by me. I said he must accept no more instructions from the man and to check with me first.
    A Sold sign is in the garden so the neighbours (very nice but not the brightest to be honest!) didn't think to check with me.
    As I told them, that just means sold subject to contract. No contract has been signed nor do we even have a date for this.
    The front now looks mess with dead stuff in a big bag , a couple of black bin bags, and on the ground. I will be onto the estate agent on Monday to tell them to have strong word with the buyer. We could take action over this to be honest. Trespass and wilful damage!
    We won't, unless the sale falls through then we may want some recompense to put the garden right.

    Today I want to ring his stupid neck to be honest. He KNOWS that is not his property. No money has changed hands and nothing been signed.
    Once we have the money and he owns the house he can do whatever he likes, but not yet!!!

    I have no idea if he has the code to the keysafe but today I have changed it.
    “A grandchild fills a space in your heart that you never knew was empty.” – Unknown

    #2
    Gem Im shocked , how could he possibly think this would be ok when he does not own the property

    If it falls through you want it all restored instantly ,
    I would be absolutely furious

    Im not fat just 6ft too small

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      #3
      I am Oma!!
      As OH says, not be be mean but at 80+ he could die suddenly before the sale goes though!!
      “A grandchild fills a space in your heart that you never knew was empty.” – Unknown

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        #4
        Gem, it makes you wonder how some people think.
        Some people just don't use their brains.
        I'm sure i would be furious as well.
        And yes,if the sale fails tell him you want it restored.
        oh, and i think you did the right thing in changing the keysafe code.
        Sometimes I forget to like posts,but that doesn't mean I don't like them.

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          #5
          Gem, the cheek of it!!! DS2 had something similar when he was selling his house in Rotterdam, the couple had viewed it and decided to buy it, it isn't theirs until the sale goes through, one day he got a mail from the agent asking about something they wanted to know, he asked how they had seen what they had, the agent had given them the key so they could measure rooms etc, in fact they wanted to move in very fast as where they were they were having problems with the neighbours, I wonder why!!!! DS2 went to the agent and got the key, he said they could have it when they had signed for it!!!

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            #6
            Lizzie, the cheek of some people!

            I think some buyers see an empty property as somehow more theirs before it is than they would an occupied one! I can't imagine the buyer would have got someone to hack down parts mum's front garden if she were living there, but this is no different, as with going in and measuring up at your son's house.

            Even the estate agent doesn't have the code to mums keysafe now, so ain't nobody getting in without my say so
            “A grandchild fills a space in your heart that you never knew was empty.” – Unknown

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              #7
              You do right Gem, that is what DS2 thought, he was very busy with work at the time but managed to go and claim the key!!!

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                #8
                I would be furious too Gemini, shame he involved the neighbour.
                What is life if full of care we have no time to stand and stare

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                  #9
                  I agree Plant, as now they feel bad.
                  “A grandchild fills a space in your heart that you never knew was empty.” – Unknown

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                    #10
                    Gem, I would be pushing for this man to complete on the sale within say 2 weeks. I would tell your solicitor what’s happened. It’s totally outrageous. 🤬🤬🤬
                    "Joy is what happens to us when we allow ourselves to recognise how good things really are. "

                    (Marianne Williamson)

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                      #11
                      When you have more time Daisy, you will find out that there is some question about the whereabouts of the deeds (totally stressful weekend regarding the house!) This may slow things up
                      If not, you are right! My email and photos have gone to the estate agent this morning.
                      “A grandchild fills a space in your heart that you never knew was empty.” – Unknown

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                        #12
                        The estate agents have apologised (not really their fault though) They had no idea that this had happened and are going to contact the buyer today to make it clear that he has no rights over the house or garden until the exchange of contracts, and that he is not to enter the garden unless accompanied by the estate agents.
                        “A grandchild fills a space in your heart that you never knew was empty.” – Unknown

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                          #13
                          Originally posted by Gemini View Post
                          When you have more time Daisy, you will find out that there is some question about the whereabouts of the deeds (totally stressful weekend regarding the house!) This may slow things up
                          If not, you are right! My email and photos have gone to the estate agent this morning.
                          Sorry, Gem - I have a lot of catching up to do, but no wonder you're stressed. Sending calm, gentle hugs. xxx
                          "Joy is what happens to us when we allow ourselves to recognise how good things really are. "

                          (Marianne Williamson)

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