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    Christmas shopping, how do you do it?!

    I know that on this forum there are various attitudes and methods of shopping for the festive season.
    Some start in the January sales , others won't even think of it before December, and many of us somewhere in between.
    Where do you stand?

    How do you do your Christmas shopping? Online, all bought from the shops in person, or a combination of the two?

    I have a sister and daughter with February birthdays, so have been known to pick up birthday presents for them in the post-Christmas sales, but not Christmas presents for the following year. I do buy cards, wrapping paper and bags, and crackers for the following year though.

    Once years ago I didn't start my shopping until December. I was in town on Christmas Eve, still looking for things for my OH. It stressed me out, a lot, and I decided to never do that again. Since then I always aim to get all my shopping finished before December, apart from little extras I may spot while I am out.
    For me not shopping early equals stress. Knowing I have a box full of gifts, waiting to be wrapped when I get round to it equals being in control of Christmas! Also with small grandchildren, I want to be able to get them what they want, and not risk it being sold out in December. I usually get some good bargains by buying toys in October. GD and GS1s presents are bought and safely stowed away in the loft.
    I can understand why some people feel Christmas starts too soon, and in many ways I agree. However, buying Christmas presents in good time, is my practice to stay. It works for me

    I do a lot of the shopping online, I would say at least 3 quarters of it. I also like to get little extras at some of the lovely shops we have around here, or at craft fairs.

    I have to do my mums Christmas shopping for her, and she never lets me know what she wants early enough (apart from boxes of Roses and Quality Street, which I got for her from Tesco yesterday at £4!) Having mine all done makes me less stressed about having to do hers later!




    “A grandchild fills a space in your heart that you never knew was empty.” – Unknown

    #2
    Well this year because of circumstances we have everything in and ready for Christmas a mix of online shopping and going ourselves, I do pick nice little bits up during the year ,just stocking fillers nothing major ,My friend has always gone shopping Christmas eve , when her children were small all 4 stayed with us from early Christmas eve morning till the shops closed and they came home , I could never do that . 1 it's to stress full ,2 by then the shops have not enough stock left especially Argos for toys , I asked her a few month ago if she still shopped like that now they were grown and she had GC and she does she loves the hustle and bustle of it all , not for me I'm afraid I like a stress free Christmas Shop , because we haven't had a lot off time to organise this year I was surprised how quickly and smoothly we managed to get everything in . I'm not doing a big food shop this year I will go to DD for Xmas lunch then the Hospital Boxing day I will have two youngest GC for their gifts so will get usual treats for them but as I will be on my own most of the time and going to friends there isn't any point buying loads
    Im not fat just 6ft too small

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      #3
      A mixture of both online and shop, anything needed from shop hubs will collect. I cannot cope with crowded shops, we get a list from everyone and select things from the lists. No major food shop this year as we are treating 13 of us to Christmas Dinner out. As we were first people to book we had a choice of tables, so naturally picked the one nearest the carvery. We gave everyone a menu to make their choices and took that and the final payment in a couple of weeks ago. So just nibbly bits to get, DD invited us for Christmas tea but we declined. After seeing them all for dinner, we shall come home and flop on the sofa. I shall take their Christmas sacks with us and hand them over as we leave. Boxing day I have no idea, but hopefully just the two of us at home.
      "What doesn't kill us,makes us stronger."

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        #4
        Libra, I would love to try a big family Christmas meal out one year.
        My mum is very vocal about hating the idea of restaurant Christmas meals, so it won't by while she is on this earth. It's tricky with a vegan SIL too, but I would like to do what you are doing just once at least.
        “A grandchild fills a space in your heart that you never knew was empty.” – Unknown

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          #5
          Despite being one of the die-hard "leave it until December" we have made some arrangements. DIL2's mother has invited us to hers for Christmas (there!!!! I've said it!!!!) dinner. She and/or DIL's dad have been to us for the last few years and she has kindly invited us this year. So for the first time in nearly 40 years I shall not be cooking The Dinner. However, we have invited lots of family round for the 27th. OH's oldest sister and her hubby are down from North Wales, staying with one of their daughters, their younger daughter and family live nearby as well. In all, I think there will be about 15 adults, 6 children and 2 dogs.

          As for shopping, I do as much online as possible. My idea of hell is trawling round Southampton looking for gifts when I don't really know what to get people, or if I do have an idea, it's not to be found. We've agreed this year that our immediate family will only buy for the children. There's nothing we need, none of us want any more things to dust or find a place for, so we'll concentrate on the children.

          LG snd Gem - I think a Christmas meal out is a lovely idea, although I do always feel sorry for the staff doing the work - they have families too and they must wish they could be with them. Hopefully they get double pay.
          "Joy is what happens to us when we allow ourselves to recognise how good things really are. "

          (Marianne Williamson)

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            #6
            Some of our Christmas shopping is done online and some in the shops.
            I couldn't leave it till Christmas eve like Oma's friend. My least favourite job is wrapping the presents,so i do it more or less as soon as i have bought presents.
            Sometimes I forget to like posts,but that doesn't mean I don't like them.

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              #7
              Being a Scrooge I don't do Christmas presents , the GC get communal gifts to which I contribute . Years ago I told everyone I was doing the charity stuff instead . I used to do the main Christmas Dinner but now that OH can't get out , and we have no dining room either , I just hope someone will throw me a crust !!. Last year I did a roast for DD1 and her oh , we had a few crackers etc . I am told I have to make a Pudding this year ! so looks like the crusts will be coming

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                #8
                We are eating out this year for the first time to give my DD a rest from all the shopping and cooking. My GC send me links to things they would like and I order on line. We have three birthdays before Christmas. I haven't got any presents yet, must get started.
                What is life if full of care we have no time to stand and stare

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                  #9
                  Aggie - I'm sure it will be a very tasty crust - and after all the years of you doing it, it will be nice to be looked after.

                  Plant - birthdays at Christmas are difficult, aren't they. Our GD2's is the 27th and her mum and dad have decided that any big presents ( like a bike) should wait until Easter when the weather is better. It will work better for GD1 as well whose birthday is the end of August. So any large/outdoor type of presents are taken out of the Christmas/birthday conundrum. But the Easter Bunny is going to be busy in Daisy-land.
                  "Joy is what happens to us when we allow ourselves to recognise how good things really are. "

                  (Marianne Williamson)

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                    #10
                    Having the pleasure of 5 DGSs aged 13/25 yrs I do tend to stock up during the year on 3 for 2 smellies to give them I wrap them as I buy them and they all go into a box,I have started to do this with the two DGDs as well as one is 14 and the other 18 so they love all things girly Boots have had some fab offers on "Soap&Glory" they also get some £s in a card all of mine is done by Oct/Nov as I also have 4 birthdays right on top of xmas and new year,but this year I can trawl the baby stores for prezzies for little GGD which I shall enjoy as I haven't "Baby" shopped for quite a few years,DD and I shall share cost of xmas lunch as I am at their house for the day being chief cook and bottle washer a job I love to do every year and where my boys will drop in during the day with their wives.
                    Keep Calm,You're Fabulous

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                      #11
                      OH,s Birthday is 26 November but as he will be in Hospital having his week of Chemo we will celebrate it the week before he goes in , he always says don't bother it's too near Xmas , as if we would ignore it 😲
                      Im not fat just 6ft too small

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                        #12
                        Oma, my dads birthday was June 22nd. This was always very close to Fathers Day, and sometime on that day. He always said he didn't need presents for both. I told him it wasn't his fault he was born close to Fathers Day,and of course he deserved 2 presents!
                        “A grandchild fills a space in your heart that you never knew was empty.” – Unknown

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                          #13
                          I'm no good at early shopping. I bought GD a horsey necklace at a craft event in the summer and now I can't find it.🙄 However I did buy the DDs a mug each to go in their stockings which they still expect. (Same stockings as they have always had) I have ordered books for the GCs from DD2 as she is an Usbourne agent, and will await instruction from DDs for main gifts for the children. Other than that it's the £5 rule, make it, buy it from a charity shop, the sillier the better.
                          Women are like tea bags; you never know how strong they are until they are put in hot water.
                          Eleanor Roosevelt.

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                            #14
                            Normally I'm well into the Christmas Spirit by now. It's almost a year since Mum died, so close to Christmas & I'm all mixed up. We also need to celebrate my GS3s 1st birthday a week after. We're having our DD & GSs here for Christmas day ( their first Christmas since her partner left). Somehow I need to find it in me to remember mum with love & make it a happy day for my lovely family. Maybe it's a humbling lesson for me to re-evaluate the true meaning of Christmas. The importance of Family love.
                            Last edited by Nana; 08-11-2016, 06:31 AM.
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                            (Doe Zantamata.)

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                              #15
                              Yes Nana you are right but your mother is still with you in your heart.
                              What is life if full of care we have no time to stand and stare

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