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    A Whiny Day

    My three year old grandson, my youngest grandchild, is cute, clever, loving and adorable.
    But he whines!
    In a way his sister and cousin never have.

    It drives me nuts at times!

    Yesterday was an example of one of his more whiny days. We made little buns together in the morning. He was not too happy at waiting the 10 minutes for them to cook but I distracted him and he soon got over it. Once they were iced and the little lions put on the did not want to wait for the icing to set. Cue major whining.
    When it was lunch time he asked if he could help make his sandwich. He often does this and enjoys it. 'Of course' I said and we went back into the kitchen. When he learned there was no ham, he was moaning and whining loudly and stomping off. So I made his cheese sandwich, which he likes and when we sat down to lunch he ate it all, no problems.
    Later he whined because he had to go to the loo before getting into the car before the long journey to his sisters school.
    Then he whined because it was spaghetti bolognese for tea (which he likes)
    Having wanted Mummy for an hour or so, he was not happy when daddy arrived. He wouldn't let SIL put his shoes and coat on , and I told him to hurry up as he would then see mummy even sooner.
    'But I don't LIKE Mummy' he whined! GD and I were almost beside ourselves at this point!

    When he was leaving he kept saying he wanted to stay at Grandma's, whereas for a hour or more he seemed as if he woud like to go home!

    His 10 year old sister is so very good with him. She has more patience than I have, she is calm, talks him round, asks him questions about how he is feeling and even went off to the spare bedroom to find a teddy when he said he was tired (which was just a ploy on his part to avoid eating his tea really)
    He is a very lucky boy to have such a lovely sister.
    I hope he soon outgrows the whiny phase!
    “A grandchild fills a space in your heart that you never knew was empty.” – Unknown

    #2
    Aww Gem. He sounds a little peach. Whiny can test even the most patient person tho'.😉
    "Good friends help you to find important things when you have lost them....your smile, your hope, and your courage."

    (Doe Zantamata.)

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      #3
      Hopefully its a phase he will grow out of.
      Sometimes I forget to like posts,but that doesn't mean I don't like them.

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        #4
        Gem - I hope it's just a phase too. It must be very trying when you're being a good Grandma. It sounds as though it's very hard to distract him from whatever he is whining about, and there's no logic to it.

        "Joy is what happens to us when we allow ourselves to recognise how good things really are. "

        (Marianne Williamson)

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          #5
          It does sound as if was tired. Well done big sister
          .
          What is life if full of care we have no time to stand and stare

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            #6
            He is lovely, and plays and amuses himself very well, something his cousin just couldn't do at his age.
            When not whining he is a delight 😊
            “A grandchild fills a space in your heart that you never knew was empty.” – Unknown

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              #7
              We never had that but I suppose little people have off days too , although it would drive me mad too especially when you cant distract him ,
              GD seems to understand him well doesn't she
              I suppose its like when some get into real screaming tantrums , they frighten themselves and don't know how to stop then they are so exhausted afterwards ,
              Fingers crossed he grows out of it

              GS1 wasn't a winey child at all but god help us if he got hurt he could scream for hours , he once scuffed his knee and rolled the floor holding his knee screaming for more than a hour , at the finish I had to shout at him to give him a fright and something else to think about , He stopped and stared at me much to say Nana doesn't shout what's happening here ,
              It did the trick the poorly knee was forgotten till Mummy came in about 4 hours later and asked what he had done to his knee then the tears and knee holding started again
              Im not fat just 6ft too small

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                #8
                Oma has a point, Gem. Lots of children go through a particular type of behaviour when they don't know how to cope, in your GS2's case with things not going his way.

                Also, reading in your Chat post about how you're not feeling very well, do you think he could have picked up on that in some way?

                "Joy is what happens to us when we allow ourselves to recognise how good things really are. "

                (Marianne Williamson)

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                  #9
                  Daisy, although he is a whiner generally, it has been worse this last couple of weeks, his mum agrees. We think he's maybe not 100%. Both DD1 (his auntie) and I have felt unwell for a while, so we could all have the same virus.
                  “A grandchild fills a space in your heart that you never knew was empty.” – Unknown

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                    #10
                    Gem - poor little lad. there do seem to be a lot of virus-type illnesses around. I hope you all feel better soon. xx
                    "Joy is what happens to us when we allow ourselves to recognise how good things really are. "

                    (Marianne Williamson)

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