A Delicate Question

[Pearl5]

Thanks BL i have never even give this a thought we have quite regular sleepovers here with the 3 of them sometimes 4, the three slept last weekend all 3 together in my double bed, put the TV on there favourite film, i suppose i just never think of it cos its just normal in here, usually the 2 girls sleep with there auntie who has the double bed, but they love that they fight over her...so always end up both of them, GS sleeps with OH but has shared the bed with me, maybe time to buy a camp bed thats what my mam does they all have a camp bed each at hers..

[Gemini]

It's not a situation I have had to deal with. I have only daughters, and my grandchildren, a girl and boy cousins are only 6 and 3, and have never stayed here together yet.
There does come an age when it isn't appropriate for opposite sex siblings or cousins to share, and as other have said an 11 and half year old has probably reached it. The camp bed sounds the best option BL.

[Daisy]

I'm lucky I haven't had to worry about it with our 2 grandsons being brothers and our two granddaughters being sisters. But for a couple of years, GD1 would tell everyone she was having a sleepover at Grandma's and was sleeping in the big boys' bed!!!

Last time the GSs stayed and there was a house full, we put a tent in the garden and they happlily slept there. Well, GS1 did, GS2 was slightly put off by torrential rain!