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    Achievements and new things in later life

    For fear of taking over Nana's thread elsewhere, I have started a new one, on this interesting topic!

    What careers, hobbies and interests have you taken on later in life, from late 40's onwards?

    Did you find these harder to learn as you got older? Did they increase your confidence and make you want learn more?

    We have all mastered the internet and the online world and smartphones. None of of us grew up with this, so we deserve a pat on the back for that!

    In my late 40's I took the bull by the horns and decide to conquer my fear of learning to drive. It took me a while, but a month before my 50th birthday I passed my test and became a driver. My life now with grandchildren and mum would be very different if I didn't drive and have my own car.
    The achievement, and privilege that I felt on passing still lives with in me. Almost 15 years later, I get joy from being able to get into my own car and go wherever I want or need to.
    The month after I passed my driving test I did my exams to qualify as a reflexologist. I had done courses in both reflexology and anatomy and physiology over the previous year, then case studies, assessments and exams. So, I had a busy and productive time around the time I turned 50
    Learning to drive took me longer than it would a younger person, and I was more cautious and aware of the dangers and responsibilities of being on the road.

    Since setting up this forum (with a third person who knew more than either of us but then left) Daisy and I have learned a lot, and are still learning. I feel proud of us both.

    The latest thing I have had to learn is how to organise my photos on my laptop!! I am still putting it into practice until I become proficient at it.

    I think learning continues throughout life, and I think it is important to keep learning new skills, whatever they may be.
    “A grandchild fills a space in your heart that you never knew was empty.” – Unknown

    #2
    Gem - what an inspiring thread, and what a lot you have achieved. Also all those new skills and knowledge benefit other people as well - your family, all us grannies and all the clients who have been calmed, cheered and enhanced because of your treatments.


    I'm sure there will be lots of inspiring stories from other grannies as well.

    "Joy is what happens to us when we allow ourselves to recognise how good things really are. "

    (Marianne Williamson)

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      #3
      Thank you Daisy
      “A grandchild fills a space in your heart that you never knew was empty.” – Unknown

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        #4
        I think most of my new things in my late 40s/early 50s were work-related. I got a 2:1 Honours degree and several promotions at work. With the added responsibilities came more opportunities to work with and help students, and that really was an an enormous privilege.

        Then in my late 50s I changed career completely and fulfilled a long-held dream of becoming a photographer. Photographing people is amazing - they are all different, and I loved the challenge of making them feel comfortable in front of the camera, relax and have fun.

        As Gem says, we are both progressing in understanding and running GransRus. I don't think we'll ever sit back and say we know it all - and I think that is as it should be.

        Having our rescue dog Eva in our lives has opened up a whole new way of caring for, training and trying to understand dogs who have had a rocky time. She teaches me more than I ever teach her!

        Something unexpected has been the arrival of our Grandaughters. With two sons and two grandsons, I had never had much contact with girly babies, toddlers and under 11s. It's been both a joy and an eye-opener, and I'm loving it - and I'm still learning.



        "Joy is what happens to us when we allow ourselves to recognise how good things really are. "

        (Marianne Williamson)

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          #5
          Most of the things I did have happened later in life,like Gems I passed my driving test later in life at 32 something Mr,G has never gotten over.It enabled me to take youngest DS to school after yrs of travelling on local transport or relying on OH.
          Passing my test also got me on the road (so to speak) to changing my employment and I started selling new properties for well known builders something I did and loved for many years travelling all over Cheshire.
          At 50ish we changed direction completly and moved abroad to run our own business something we had never dreamed of doing,it worked out so well and taught me how to manage our own business whilst enjoying the sun a totally different way of life for both of us.
          My unexpected joy after my DGCs growing up has been my 2 x GGC and baby DGD all under 3 and bringing such a joy to the family after such a while.
          Keep Calm,You're Fabulous

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            #6
            Wow, Daisy, you have done amazing things!

            Like you with the GDs my 2 grandsons after 3 DDs and a GD were a learning curve (I'm still not used to the volume level!)

            Glamma, being able to drive makes such a difference doesn't it? I wished I had plucked up the courage to do it years before.
            Your life is really opening up again with not only GGC but a new GD
            “A grandchild fills a space in your heart that you never knew was empty.” – Unknown

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              #7
              Glamm - emigrating and starting your own business are major life changes. I'm also sure it was not less of a decision to come back to the UK. And now you have your GGCs and a new GD. xx


              Gem - thank you, although it didn't feel amazing at the time, but I have no regrets.
              "Joy is what happens to us when we allow ourselves to recognise how good things really are. "

              (Marianne Williamson)

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                #8
                Just wondering where ‘later life’ begins. At 40 I was appointed to the magistracy and served 30 years on the both the adult and later, the family Bench.
                I became HT of a school and then a university tutor - neither of which I had even thought about as a lowly NQT. Neither did I see myself as a granny, but now I’m granny to four boys. Like everyone else I’ve learned how to navigate the net and I run two Twitter accounts, my own and my church’s. But I’m still woefully ignorant about lots of it. My sewing skills have diminished as it’s often more expensive to sew your own than to buy, but I still do patchwork. After I finally retired I became a trustee of our local Mencap and am now its Chair. That’s been a swift learning curve. And with more time I’m building up my stamina for long walks. The best this year was 19.5 km. I also visit lots of art galleries and am slowly learning a lot more about painting and sculpture. And, I’m getting to know London where I’ve lived for 50 years but never had the time to explore properly. It’s so big! That’s been a great joy as there are so many green spaces and so much to see and do, mostly for free.

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                  #9
                  Im afraid I haven't achieved anything really , unless you class learning how to give injections and clean tubes going in and out of a neck and chest,
                  I did start learning Egg craft decorations when I was 50 along with other crafts but nothing that is of great achievement or a asset to society ,
                  Ive just carried on being a full time carer and Nanna so nothing much
                  Im not fat just 6ft too small

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                    #10
                    Originally posted by Oma View Post
                    Im afraid I haven't achieved anything really , unless you class learning how to give injections and clean tubes going in and out of a neck and chest,
                    I did start learning Egg craft decorations when I was 50 along with other crafts but nothing that is of great achievement or a asset to society ,
                    Ive just carried on being a full time carer and Nanna so nothing much
                    I know it’s rude to swear but what utter *******

                    Let me rewrite it for you:

                    I’ve learned how to perform complex medical procedures, sustain and support my very sick husband, support my children and grandchildren giving endless hours of high quality childcare / education. I’ve acted as a taxi service for various family members.
                    I’ve also attained a stratosphericly high level of intricate craft skills and given great pleasure to people as they contemplate them.
                    I’m also active on social media and have been a great support and friend to many.
                    And, I’m the super domestic goddess of the North East.

                    Now, how does that sound?

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                      #11
                      Hear hear Sum1
                      You are an amazing woman, Oma!

                      Sum1, I have been impressed by your walking , following you on FB
                      “A grandchild fills a space in your heart that you never knew was empty.” – Unknown

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                        #12
                        Sum1 - thank you for rewriting Oma's post. As I was reading her original dismissive words I was thinking exactly what you've written! Oma - I hope you 'get' it - you're amazing. By the way, Sum - there's the dog sitting as well!!!

                        Sum1 - You didn't include "I've got a good eye for photography and have taken some stunning photos." I'm following your adventures round London too. It makes me realise I know very little about the area I've lived in for 36 years!

                        "Joy is what happens to us when we allow ourselves to recognise how good things really are. "

                        (Marianne Williamson)

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                          #13
                          Awww Sum1 thank you so much , the way you put it does sound like I have achieved something in life
                          I feel quite emotional now and very humble xxxxxxx
                          Im not fat just 6ft too small

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                            #14
                            Oma - what Sum1 said is absolutely true - you've achieved the most amazing thing you can in loving and supporting B through everything life has thrown at him, to say nothing of all the other things. xxx
                            "Joy is what happens to us when we allow ourselves to recognise how good things really are. "

                            (Marianne Williamson)

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                              #15
                              I was feeling the same Oma, just a wife, mother, grandmother. I will need to rethink it. By the way I agree with the others, you are an amazing strong lady.
                              What is life if full of care we have no time to stand and stare

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