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    Bones

    I haven’t had the will or energy to post anywhere so apologies for that. But dear Oma has checked up on me!

    For those who don’t know, I caught my foot in a hidden hole and was propelled over a five food dry stone wall. To be honest after I landed the force of the hit was so intense I thought that I’d met my end. I’ve never known pain like it - not even childbirth.

    Anyway, the air ambulance came and I was helicoptered to Preston where I had a CP scan, an MRI scan and all sorts.

    I was in hospital for four days and the neurosurgeon told me that I was very lucky and had got away with it, as there was no nerve damage. Doesn’t bear thinking about if there had been.

    Fortunately, one of our nephews lives in Preston and T stayed with them and I spent one night there before T drove home.

    What a journey - road works, jolts, bumps - and he’s an Advanced Driver, but every bend and bump cause the most excruciating pain.

    I’ve been in pain since but was warned that it would be six weeks of hell, and then another six weeks still wearing the contraption night and day. Sleep is impossible

    As you can imagine I’m very down in spirits, but T, family and friends and neighbours have been very supportive. T is finding it hard because he can’t do anything to help with pain and although he’s had to do bed stripping, ironing etc he’s struggling and he gets frustrated as he’s used to being good at stuff. Fortunately he can cook well!

    My friend Maria has been a tower of strength, turning up to do jobs and making me a silk collar to go underneath the hard plastic cage.

    My DiL has been wonderful too getting the surgery and hospital to sort out follow up. All SE London hospitals have been hit with the cyber attack and that’s been a nightmare.

    DD has sorted out my clothes and brought some of her old maternity stuff up as I can’t move my head at all and can’t get anything over the cage.

    They are coming up from Whitstable on Sunday with ‘a feast’ as it’s our 51st anniversary.

    It’s been a bad three days with the pain. Not just the neck, ribs and back but totally changed body shape. I’ve lost half a stone but can’t get into my skirts or trousers. Have lost two inches as spine curves and squashes upper body space. It makes tummy bulge as not enough space for stomach and other organs to go. Hard to breathe properly and can only eat the tiniest of meals and have to cut all food up small as I can’t open my mouth properly with the brace. Four weeks down on Thursday and then another eight to go. Even then it will take time to get neck muscles working again and restore some sort if stamina. But am stuck with v old lady shape for ever.​

    So, that’s my sad and sorry tale, I e checked in briefly but had no energy to post. Sorry.

    #2
    Oh Jane it sounds horrible,
    Pain lack of sleep and feeling uncomfortable all the time wears the spirit down ,
    I remember when B was in a full body cast from arm pit to knees for 8 weeks it was hell.
    Middle of summer and then it was learning to walk again .

    I do hope you manage to enjoy your Anniversary a little , it’s one you won’t forget that’s for sure .
    Hugs dear lady , and don’t worry about posting, when your not well it’s the last thing on your mind xx
    Im not fat just 6ft too small

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      #3
      It makes me realise how much B must have suffered. Brave man

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        #4
        Sum, when I read that is seems you are lucky to be alive!! You must be suffering, I do hope that you manage to live with less pain.xxxx

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          #5
          Dear Sum1 you certainly have been through a terribly rough time and still are.

          No surprise your spirits are a bit low just now.

          I'm glad you have such good support.
          You are a strong woman and were physically fit and active, which will be beneficial for your recovery.

          Love to you, you will get there xxx
          “A grandchild fills a space in your heart that you never knew was empty.” – Unknown

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            #6
            I read what had happened on Facebook.
            The pain you are in sounds horrendous.
            Its good that you have got such good support.
            Try to enjoy your anniversary,even though you are in this awful situation.
            Sometimes I forget to like posts,but that doesn't mean I don't like them.

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              #7
              Sum I’m so sorry you are in such pain and the frame sounds like a medieval torture instrument. As others have said you are a fit lady( you wouldn’t have been hiking over a field if you weren’t) which will surely help with your recovery.Glad you’ve got good support for you and T.Thinking of you and sending you love and healing vibes.

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                #8
                Sum1, I can't begin to imagine the pain you must be in. I do hope you've been given some strong medication to help. All I can hope for is that as the pain eases, you can begin to get some mobility and strength back. Sending love and healing vibes x
                Believe you can and you're halfway there.
                Theodore Roosevelt.

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                  #9
                  Sum1, from what you describe, it sounds like torture. I hope things improve for you soon. Sending gentle hugs
                  What is life if full of care we have no time to stand and stare

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                    #10
                    I can’t imagine the pain and discomfort you have Sum. I send my best wishes and the good old Essex healing vibes to you. I hope you are able to watch the Olympics at least, accompanied by a cool drink etc.
                    Women are like tea bags; you never know how strong they are until they are put in hot water.
                    Eleanor Roosevelt.

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                      #11
                      Sum, all that pain for such a long time is totally debilitating without the discomfort of the brace (the silk liner was a great idea) and the way it's forcing your body into even more discomfort. Are you getting any effective painkillers?

                      I know every day must seem endless, but have faith, keep your spirits up and know that "this too will pass".

                      I'm sure time must be hanging very heavily and I've been trying to think what might take your mind of the nightmare for a while. Does music help? Or some good audio books?

                      It sounds as though T is doing his very best with tasks he doesn't usually tackle, and I'm sure he's very adept at making you tiny meals to tempt your appetite.

                      "Joy is what happens to us when we allow ourselves to recognise how good things really are. "

                      (Marianne Williamson)

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                        #12
                        Thank you Daisy. Yes, time drags and I’ve read more books than ever, I must have brain fog though as I struggle to remember what I’ve read.

                        As for painkillers, I’m reduced to paracetamol as all the others make me very sick and give me hallucinations which is worse.

                        T is being valiant and I’m being very good at not giving advice (for the most part) just resigning myself to let things go until I can sort it out myself!

                        I’m tearing days off the calendar and wishing the next two months away, but even then I know there will be rehab. G says I should do Pilates then to build up strength.

                        And it’s true. It will pass x

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                          #13
                          I can’t imagine what discomfort you are feeling Sum. How about listening to some music, would that relax you but I am sure you have thought of that.
                          What is life if full of care we have no time to stand and stare

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                            #14
                            Originally posted by Sum1Ls View Post

                            And it’s true. It will pass x
                            Sum1, when my GD1 was very ill when she was in Year 7, and was off school for almost a year we talked about the perception of time, and how it was dragging for her while she was at home, but how, once she was back at school and in the swing of things it would soon become less significant and eventually a distant memory. It was something positive to hang on to for her, and I think it helped.

                            I hope it's the same for you once you get back into your normal routines and activities. Are you getting any visitors, or do you feel too ill to cope with them? xxx

                            "Joy is what happens to us when we allow ourselves to recognise how good things really are. "

                            (Marianne Williamson)

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                              #15
                              Update. Oma has been so good keeping in touch, and here I am still jogging on. I think you know I had a C2 peg fracture, three crushed vertebrae and four broken ribs - It’s been a long slow summer and while I know the bones have now healed and the pain is somewhat diminished, it’s still very much there and quite bad by the end of the day.

                              I have no idea how long it will be before I’m mostly better, and I know that the loss of three inches of height and my curved spine is irreversible.

                              The other downside is that the crushing has changed my body shape. All the internal organs are squashed into a smaller space, so stretching , eating and breathing is harder, stomach is smaller - I now weigh 6 stone 11 yet my ‘waist’ is two inches bigger! I’m hoping the physio might help a bit with muscle strength and toning up a bit but that’s to be seen.

                              DD has researched some exercises for me via her physiotherapist/Pilates teacher to be going on with. And all the family and friends have been so supportive and kind. Good friend, M, comes every week and does the ironing as I can’t manage it and DH is very good but not for ironing! But I’m afraid I’m no company for anyone atm. Very weary and in pain and I’m no saint who endures it cheerfully.

                              I have to be honest and confess I am down in spirits as I can’t do much at all as my head is held rigid and ribs are so painful. It’s impossible to sleep with this thing on my head, I fall asleep for an hour or so, then wake up and have to walk along the landing to ease my back for a spell. I’m in the front bedroom for the duration as I can’t lie down.

                              I get twitchy when I can’t get out in the country to walk and explore and am even finding it hard to concentrate on my books.

                              Still, that’s enough moaning and it’s now just another month before the head cage comes off. The pain is diminishing but still pretty bad especially as the day wears on.

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